Interrupt Your Child's Interruption Habit: Good Parenting Info

Teaching your daughter or son not to interrupt can sometimes be an exercise in frustration. Telling them there’s a time to interrupt (for example, in case of a fire) and a time to not interrupt (boredom) isn’t enough. But putting these principles into practice is easier said than done, especially for a very verbal or high-energy kid. That’s why now is an excellemt time to revisit some basic lessons about good manners and teaching your daughter or son to wait their turn to speak.

First of all, set a reasonable expectation. School-aged children have a difficult time holding their thoughts for more than a few minutes. Indicate to them as best as you can that you’ll be with them as soon as possible and then stay true to your word.

Develop some ideas for them to occupy themselves with while you’re on the phone or otherwise unavailable. Keep a box full of puzzles, colorful markers, crayons or other quiet toys nearby that they can only use when you have to make a call. Set drinks and snacks within easy reach so they don’t have to interrupt you for help.

When you need to make a call or have an important conversation with a visitor, head off trouble by saying you’re about to phone someone or have a conversation and estimate how long you expect to talk. Ask them if they need anything before you make your call or have your conversation with your visitor. Then try your best to adhere to that time schedule, and excuse yourself from the conversation long enough to check on them. Let them know you’ll be a bit longer if that’s the case and see if they need anything before returning to your conversation.

Reading is a great tool to teach manners. Find several books on the subject then read them together. Discuss afterwards what your daughter or son learned from the story and how they’ll handle a similar situation in their life the next time it occurs.

Of course, children learn what they live. Your daughter or son is very unlikely to learn not to interrupt if they hear you, your spouse, or their siblings constantly interrupting each other. Your actions have a strong influence on your daughter or son, so be a good example and request permission to speak before speaking, and apologize when you inadvertently interrupt.

Your goal is to be a good role model for your daughter or son. You want to lead by example.

An excellent way to build a bond with your daughter or son is to have a shared interest. So why not take up face painting. Kids just love having their faces painted and being able to face paint is so handy for all those themed birthday parties, Halloween and other festive occasions.
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Originally posted 2008-05-04 08:13:50.

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8 Responses to “Interrupt Your Child's Interruption Habit: Good Parenting Info”

  1. pel ken on August 2nd, 2010 at 5:36 pm

    I know this one all too well. I’m often much more successful at taking care of and helping others than I am at taking care of myself. Especially true during times of significant professional transition.

  2. bada amladiyam on August 4th, 2010 at 2:42 am

    Nothing too serious you will just become extremely drowsy

  3. defordenin pirover on August 4th, 2010 at 8:56 am

    biliyorum en sevdi?im çok güzel

  4. jun on August 8th, 2010 at 8:01 pm

    hola soy ochentera de la ciudad de oaxaca,! viva el high energy por siempre! saludos a todos los que iban a los arcos discoteque, al pasha,y al yonkee video disco y tambien a los lugares donde se presentaba polymarchs y los demas luz y sonido locales, y a todos los locutores de la xekc radio exitos: gerardo garcia,jesus lopez santiago,jose luis romero bennets, pedro geraldo lopez y fernando martinez platas.

  5. gal on September 27th, 2010 at 1:52 pm

    As others have said, could be overheating, where the processor thermal protection is activating — check the temperature with CPUID’s free Hardware Monitor (HWMonitor). Could also be an interrupt storm or similar (I’ve had lots of problems with the DVD drive doing this randomly): check the various Windows Logs in the Event Viewer. Download and run the DPC Latency Checker. If there’s a particular device associated with the issue, could be going bad, have cable problems, driver conflicts (reinstall them to see), or just need a driver update.

  6. morio santarehle on November 7th, 2010 at 12:37 pm

    This really won't do, specifically the provision of “good evidence” as a defence of Jonathan Head.The case should simply not have been taken forward.There is furthermore no duty of the FCCT to have the “right attitude” to Thai royalty,and certainly not to endorse an out of control personality cult.All that is required of FCCT is to respect Thai law and show good manners and discretion

  7. sch on January 3rd, 2012 at 2:49 am

    Proper etiquette can be taken too far. As long as someone has basic good manners and smoke in a crowd of non-smokers etc. — I think just being considerate is enough.

  8. wallews on January 4th, 2012 at 10:22 pm

    Every time? i stumble upon this video, i keep thinking the title meant it’s the movie summed up in a few minutes xD

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